To review, we have discussed 3 vital components to building
a champion, and “building” is the right term.
This is an exhaustive intentional process that leaves nothing to chance,
interpretation or luck.
1.
To build a champion, there must exist a
goal, benchmark or objective that is worthy of champion status. No
little goals, status quo, or getting by!
2.
The personalized, custom and unique plan of the
champion sets up the behavior and desired outcome. No more doing the same thing and expecting different results!
3.
And the perfect adherence to the correct plan
separates the champion from all others. Practice DOES NOT make perfect. Only PERFECT PRACTICE makes perfect!
4.
Finally:
the champion needs the right team for support.
What does this mean to have the right team? Of course we know Jim Collins addresses
getting the right people on the bus and then taking the bus anywhere! Sometimes, however we inherit the team, we
get the team in our class, group, club or even our co-workers. He produces great research that those
companies that went from Good to Great
all had this in common. But the question still remains, what is the right team?
What are the attributes? Or even, how does the championship team differ from
everybody else?
To begin, this team of support behaves a certain way. To behave like a champion by definition,
means the behavior is different. For example,
students that want to come to class for the sake of what they get out of
showing up, verses the perception that they “have to be there” is a good
indication champions are being built in that setting. Thus the champion builder encourages, looks
for authentic praise, understands the term approbation and uses it appropriately
and realizes there are plenty of people finding fault. The champion builder finds and focuses on the
success. As a test, of this concept,
consider the infamous parent-teacher night at the beginning of the year. Why do students NOT want the parents and
teacher to meet? Of course it is because
the student believes they will gang up and the teacher will not say anything
nice about the student. Parents may also
believe this and in a situation of self-fulfilling prophecy, the parents and
the teacher spend the entire meeting focused on the student’s deficiencies and
areas of concern, all under the guise of “helping.” As an alternative, the few days leading up to
the parent-teacher meetings, invest time praising each student, in front of the
entire class! Yes, even the worst
student in class! Go around the room and
intentionally share publically some positive attribute about everyone. Let them know what is going on and watch them
ALL sit and listen to the individual and specific sentence or four about each
of their peers. They will all listen
intently. They will begin to believe in
themselves just by watching another take the first step. This is called approbation and is the key
component to the successful support team behind all champions. Champions are not built by focusing on the
problems but by magnifying the positive.
What we just described here is a behavior. It is an action. It is reproducible, a skill to develop and
something we can practice on ourselves, get better at, and change in our own
lives, even consider accountability to each other. It is not a belief. It is a behavior. It is a choice that we make over and over
again. Even when we do not feel like it!
Behavior must come before belief, even though our belief influences our
behavior, we cannot expect to wait for our beliefs to change if we want our
behavior to change. Just like we behaved
by saying 2+2=4 as a little child, long before we actually knew what it
meant. We behaved, then we
believed. These actions all demonstrate an
attitude or choice and an active decision on our part as leaders.
This display of care, attention or affection is the best way
to connect. The opposite of apathy is
care! The champion builder is the first
one to care. The champion has to LEARN
what it looks like to care, what it means to care and how it is actually vital
to care. Our wards do come equipped with the ability, understanding or even the
desire to care. As champion builders, we
must ignite that passion in others. Before
we can reach them with our content, we must reach them as candidates to championships.
This is just the beginning of champion building. I will continue to post characteristics, attributes
and attitudes necessary for champions, champion building and how that affects
us in our day to day living. Please
examine these as perspectives gleaned from experience and not directives. Feel free to take the risks necessary to put
these concepts into practice, share them with others and mentor others into
championships!