As we count down till the ball dropping, what considerations might we ponder at this new beginning? How do we self-assess? Or do we? Do we make resolutions to change, or do we try and manage our vices? Do we recommit to maintaining good habits? Do we promise to exercise and eat right, only to notice it seems like tourist season at the local gym?
These landmarks are best viewed when looked at from a distance. Step back and examine three events of the prior year. Try the Ben Franklin method and list the pros and cons in two separate columns on a sheet of paper. Review any life changes and reflect on those implications.
But it may be best to look individually and not in relationship with other people. Comparing our own talents, gift, abilities and experiences with anyone else either sets us up for failure or over-inflates our perspective. Of we pick too high a bar, discouragement and paralysis from analysis stifles further goal setting. On the other hand, viewing progress through outdated or under-articulated benchmarks inflates or exaggerates our true growth.
Finally, remember to write these things down. Once written, the thought becomes a goal. As a goal, attainment shifts from possible to probable! Written goals are easier to monitor, report on and celebrate.
The answers to those earlier questions are indeed personal, yet the dilemmas are universal. What will this year look like? Will we wait for life too happen to us, or will we face obstacles head-on with confidence?
Regardless, remember to keep a big picture, individualize goals and write them down!
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